40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

Welcome to the only podcast exploring the messiness, awesomeness, of masculinity of being a gay man over 40. Each episode is about sparking idea, addressing challenges, and diving deep into what it looks like to be a vulnerable gay guy. We talk about the stuff us gay guys have a hard time talking about, man-to-man: masculinity, sex, careers, our bodies, parenting, sexuality, failures, success, and aging, relationships, coming out - nothing is off limits. 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk is the revamped version of 40 Plus: Real Men. Real Talk podcast and is a short format podcast that's easy to digest. We take deep dives - one topic at a time - digging up the truth of what it’s like to be a gay man, instead of some contrived expectation of masculinity. We’re reclaiming manhood and our masculinity by facing our fears, making bold moves, and living life without apologies. Join us, but you've got to drop your BS, forget posturing, and be ready to explore the comical dysfunctions of our lives as gay men 40+ years of age!

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Recent Reviews

Tom Bruett

Great podcast for gay men

Had an awesome time talking with Rick about gay male relationships on the podcast. He provides useful information with humor and a no nonsense approach that’s easy to listen to and entertaining. Highly recommend.
Dr. Israel Martinez

A needed podcast for gay men!

I feel honored to have had the opportunity to be a guest on this much-needed resource for gay men. This podcast keeps it real and provides a vital and non-shaming space for gay men to learn and feel validated.
GrahamClanPiper

AWESOME!

It’s so great to finally find a relevant to gay people 40 and up. I mean it’s hard enough to find anything of substance for gay men. This is a breath of fresh air.
randynx

Decent despite dominating host

It’s quickly obvious this host likes to hear himself talk… And despite having guests, Rick largely uses them as a mere sounding board for prioritizing his own commentary, in which he chronically interrupts & dominates the discussion. It’s not inherently wrong or bad for a host to engage in dialogue, drive conversation & add supporting points…if balanced well, but his style/approach reveals a more amateur experience. Conceptually the podcast has relevant topics, some meaningful bits & potential to be impactful but the Rick-centric theme got tiring. Why have guests if they’re experiences, insights, and expertise is not showcased?! I stopped listening after 4 episodes.
Prince_kf

Keeping it 100 with Rick!

I had the pleasure of being a guest on Rick Clemons' podcast, 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk. Rick's approach to our conversation about my book, Threading the Needle: A Fashion Designer’s Guide to Successfully Launching Your First Collection, and the pursuit of my dreams was both fun and inspiring. His genuine curiosity allowed me to share my journey of living authentically and fiercely pursuing my dreams - as a designer and LGBTQ advocate. Thank you, Rick, for the opportunity to share my story and for the incredible work you do for the community.
Duuuval!

Argh

An interviewer who seems to just want to talk about himself. Please, stop. Let the guest talk. Ask them questions. Listen to a Terry Gross interview for guidance. I had to unfollow.
Kforu75

Thank you 100 times over

I had the incredible opportunity to speak with Rick about being who you are created to be. I was able to tell my story and hopefully let other guy know how amazing they are for just being themselves. This was such an amazing moment in my story and I couldn’t be more excited for everyone to hear it. Rick….man you rock and I am so grateful that our paths crossed. You are changing the world one conversation at a time and I am so thankful for all you do. Until next time….
Family Twist

Corey and Kendall

Rick hosted us as guests and had some wonderful, insightful questions for us. It was a great conversation, and he got us thinking about things we hadn't yet discussed on our podcast, Family Twist. Keep up the awesome work, Rick!
Roger Leslie, PhD

Light Come Out of the Closet

Thank you, Rick, for an engaging, in-depth, and captivating interview. You offer such rich support for your audience. You are an excellent podcaster!
Over40FitHacks

Great Interview!

Thanks so much Rick for having me on the show. Your podcast is a great resource to helping out the community of over 40 men. I wish to follow in your footsteps with my podcast. -Brad
NGDesigns

Lost me within 5 minutes

I’m a new listener, and was very interested in hearing some great discussions about gay men’s health over 40. Unfortunately Rick lost me less than 5 minutes into episode 206 when he referred to his 2021 Provincetown trip as “post-Covid.” 2021 was not post-Covid. We had a massive surge of the Delta variant in 2021, and funnily enough, P-Town was one of the sources for community spread among gay men. And then there was the winter 21/22 Omicron surge. So no… we are definitely not post-Covid. Even in 2023. So I certainly can’t take anyone’s health and wellness advice seriously if they think 2021 was post-Covid. It’s unfortunate. I’d love to hear more about the important health issues of our era, but it can only be done if the host(s) can honestly acknowledge the ongoing public health crisis we’re still living through.
puppoppa

I adore Rick!

This show has been such a life changer for me. I’ve learned so much from Rick and his guests.
PNW coach

Realness with humor

Rick strikes such a balanced approach to discussing what’s important while infusing humor throughout his conversations! Having both ends of that spectrum melded together allows the listener (and his guests) to feel engaged and at ease while exploring bigger topics.
Bay Area Info

Quick witted and a giant heart- love him!!

Rick’s got everyone’s best interest in mind and he delivers the info here with his clear and clever eye on the prize demeanor. I can’t wait for more!
What a great Podcast!!!

So much fun!

I absolutely love listing to Rick's podcasts; so entertaining, so honest, and so helpful. Learning while laughing; is there anything better?!!! LOVED IT!
JsheaTerry

Amazing podcast

I love how Rick connects with us and makes it easy to understand out lives 40 plus. Funny, clever and some wisdom. Lol. Everyone should listen.
Life Coaching by Feltes

Totally Relatable and Valuable Content

Love Rick’s approach to this. The chats he has are relatable, funny, and always leave me feeling like I understand my community a bit more. Thank you to Rick and the team for giving us this content!
.Lau.ren. 🍭

Great topics and guests!

This podcast is so relevant and covers great topics!
Doc Jacked 2021

Real Talk, Real Solutions

Host Rick provides real straightforward talk about real life issues. This is the perfect show for men over 40, they are looking for solutions to their career sexuality and best ways of aging!!
JeffNally

Like Chatting With Friends

I’ve known Rick to always be a great conversationalist, and that talent shows up in each episode. He included me in a podcast, and it was like catching up with a friend I hadn’t talked to for some time. Listen to Rick’s podcasts, and you’ll feel welcomed and included...like catching up with friends. - Jeff Nally
Michiz1130

Great info for all!

I recently had the privilege of being a guest on Rick’s show. After the invitation, I began listening to previous episodes. I know it’s a podcast by a man for men, but there is truly great information and inspiration for all! And honestly, as a woman, what better way to know what is really going on with you guys than to eavesdrop on these conversations.
T. Hoge

Simply A Great Platform

Great show to hear stories and journeys from a seasoned perspective. A must listen.
malamast

Authentic, Relatable, and Raw

It's so refreshing to hear real men talk about life in authentic, relatable, and raw terms. I am so sick of the usual sugar-coated podcasts. Not with Rick Clemons, though! Rick talks to men unapologetically and gets men talking. Thanks for all you do, Rick!
whitebowtie87

Must Listen

So many amazing interviews that are honest! Love this podcast!
Karen @ Interview Valet

Great show

I love this show! Listeners will find authentic conversations on this show leading you to live your best life yet. I'm not a man but still listen and learn so much. Plus, it's a great conversation starter with those special men in your life. Thanks, Rick for going deep and keeping it REAL!
Unstuckable

Conversations man should be having, but aren't!

Thank you SO much Rick for creating this podcast and sparking such amazing conversations guys over 40 feel uncomfortable talking about! Your podcast is inspiring me to have more REAL conversations in REAL life! Must listen!
Ivygamer

Rick Clemons--Real Info, Real Fun

Rick is the type of host who really has his listeners' well-being in mind. You can tell from his interviews that doing this program is one of his life's passions. The subjects he talks about on this podcast are consequential, informative, challenging, and always entertaining. For men over 40 and those that love them, this is one of the most important podcasts out there!
Brad M 8237

Rick Clemons is the Real Deal!

I've enjoyed this podcast.... mostly because Rick is so darned authentic behind the mic. Wisdome, honesty, fun guests, and a really important topic. This will make you a better human... oh, and a better man. Listen up. You'll be glad you did.
ysh8an

Please get a new microphone!

Rick, you did a great job. I love the show. Only one thing! You need a new microphone! It’s really difficult to hear your voice. It’s not very clear. Please! Hope you all the best!
Czona00

Heart and soul

Rick Clemons is a wonderful man who puts his heart and soul in everything he does. He is a man of incredible integrity and isn't afraid of having uncomfortable conversations for the sake of good. I highly recommend his podcast and am grateful to consider Rick a mentor.
CenterForRespect

Unique conversations

The host, Rick, does a beautiful job of drawing unique conversations and insights from each guest he brings to share with listeners. Love the tone, energy and brilliance that is revealed in each episode.