I turned to this podcast when I was being sexually coerced by my ex partner when it came to his interest in swinging and threesomes. He too tried to weaponize my bisexuality to his advantage. I eventually pieced together that he was just a sex addict, and I was suffering from betrayal trauma and didn’t realize it. This podcast contains MULTIPLE episodes where the wife’s experience mirrors mine, and her husband says objectifying things about women that only a sex addict could come up with… I just hope that she’s keeping her eyes wide open and not afraid to ask the hard questions about their situation, because sexual betrayal can happen even in relationships where swinging and/or threesomes are taking place. It also sounds like he’s sexually coercing her and she’s joining in on the acting out, as a response to the fear of betrayal and abandonment. This is considered sexual abuse, and no matter how much you try to change, control or blame yourself for it, the sex addiction won’t abate until he gets into serious long term recovery. If you (the wife) ever need support, please check out support groups for betrayed spouses, like s-anon. You won’t regret it, and you’re not alone.

Not sure why but John gives me the ick.

My partner and I are John and June to the tee. We are thinking of this lifestyle and cannot believe our personalities are the same as John and June. I can’t stop listening!! Thank you both for changing my perspective of this lifestyle and how it’s ok to be yourself ❤️

Please work on editing. Before “Dropping” your Podcast, listen to it and edit out all the noise from disfluencies, hesitations, markers and fillers. The length of your episodes will probably be cut in half!

June, the worries you had at first reflect my own. Hearing how you navigated those has been super reassuring and helpful. Great podcast!

The breathing is crazy. Sounds like he’s chewing gum during the whole episode.

Great explanations and super hot stories!

- Overly judgmental! - Unattractive couple, both internally and externally. - John is a controlling narcissist!!! - John is a former military motivational speaker who enjoys hearing himself talk and talk and talk and talk and talk! - June should run away from John as fast as she can. - John is exploiting June’s childhood trauma for his own personal gain. Just stay away from the toxic show! June needs to find Jesus again and dump John!

One star, would be zero if I could: - John seems very controlling, often interrupting June. - The sounds of June giving John head at the end of each episode sounds horrible! Not necessary, not even for a swingers podcast. - I’m not sure if John is chewing tobacco or if he is chewing food, but is always smacking. - They mention fighting or jealousy on several episodes. Not cute at all. Keep that personal. No couple who is in the lifestyle wants to deal with drama. - June is a 3 at best. Not smoking hot like John says. Her face and teeth are not it. Think country bumpkin with fake boobs - This isn’t really a podcast to give advice, more so a podcast where they tell hook up stories. - John often describes the women he is with by their race. We are in 2023. This is absolutely distasteful. “Hot Latina” or “hot black chick” shouldn’t be added. Why can’t you just say a hot woman? Also why is John talking SOOOO much in the episode about June’s MFM experience? Can she not speak for herself

Wonderful episodes that are very informative and entertaining. Recommended for anyone interested or thinking about this lifestyle.

I am new to this channel but I will say they are full of information and do not put me to sleep. Will highly recommend to anyone who wants to know about the lifestyle or want to know what goes on. KEEP IT UP!

Trying to sell their stuff. Useless info.

John and June, I wanted to share that your episodes always find a way to touch on topics that we are dealing with. Especially the emotions that each of you have shared with listeners and you collectively and individually dealing with those emotions. This isn’t our first rodeo and we are not seasoned LS experts. We are just trying to do our thing and make life exciting for us by making fiends and exploring our desires. Episode 20 really hit home for me. We (I) am going through very similar emotions as June did. This is the first time since we began swinging that I have felt these emotions and have been struggling with them for a little while. We are communicating and working on it but it is taking some time. Worrying that someone else does it better than me, and the thought of her losing her desire for me and rather be with others that seem better than I, is a real stumbling block currently. You are definitely making a difference in people’s lives and hope you continue.

New to the lifestyle. Great information to incorporate into our life.

this no nonsense podcast is very helpful for new swingers. John and June work well together!

Loved to listen to it!

Thank you for addressing so many questions for us newbies out there! Your honesty and openness are super helpful in helping us with our continuing conversations. Keep up the good work!

The LS is such an individual experience. Hearing your viewpoints helps to reflect on our own experiences and how it relates. For anyone with questions or doubts, this a great podcast to get you started in the LS!

This show has answered many of the questions I had about the lifestyle and how to approach it. My wife and I are lifestyle curious and had many insecurities, such as our physical appearance, religious beliefs, and how and where to approach others we were attracted to. This show has given me the answers to these questions and so many more that I didn’t know I had. I feel like I have enough information to ease into our first encounter and if we like it as much as we expect to, many more to come.

This is a great show. It’s very informative and the hosts have a great banter with each other.

Some advice heard on this show led us to some pretty bad stuff. Thought about writing an email but after listening to the episode where they roast all their reviewers, seems like this is the better place. They don’t actually want to learn from bad reviews. Have fun roasting me 👍🏻 you already hurt me all you could.

very little educational or iformative content They don't define the terminology. They actually are new themselves. They say "we don't judge" then they judge everyone who is different They say "the Lifestyle has made us stronger", then they say "we argue alot now" They are fairly immature and insecure, but at 38 yo I guess that's standard. And like 30-somethings they think they know everything about life. I predict they get divorced in a couple years.

I just started listening to this podcast, because we are new to the lifestyle, and after listening you guys have helped with my own personal growth as a man and us as a couple. Great job and keep it up!

Just started listening to this podcast and it’s amazing. My husband an I are new to the swingers life style we so far are having a blast and so excited in meeting other swingers.

I’ve only listened to one podcast, the Unicorn episode. This was choppy and uneven at best. The guy dominated the talking which might have been best after listening to the woman speak. She needs speech therapy to get rid of the twangy hillbilly accent. She chalked it up to a Texas accent but it is annoying to say the least. It took forever for them to get to the point of the episode and even when they did it was blah and vanilla. Way too much time talking about a Sybian and a double dildo and how much alcohol was consumed and not nearly enough time talking about the details! Did he have sex with the unicorn? Nothing interesting or sexy was shared so what’s the point of the podcast? I’ll give a newer episode a listen but this podcast needs to spice it up!

Couldn’t get past the guy chewing during the podcast (Ep. 2). Why would you eat while in front of a microphone?

This is one of the best podcasts to learn about the lifestyle. We have been opening up to it and want to educate ourselves before we actually pulled the trigger. We have learned a lot through your advise and stories.

Love the dynamic and the information that is shared for all newbies or curious couples starting this lifestyle journey.

To anyone just entering or even just entertained by the thought of the lifestyle, this is a wonderful podcast. Great stories, advice, and first hand experiences to enjoy and contemplate for yourself.

Coukd not listen because of how many times the female used “like” in every sentence.

It’s very interesting hearing what the lifestyle is like. I love hearing about your story.

I'm SO interested in what you guys have chosen as your lifestyle. I ♥️ it! I’m hoping my wife will listen too. I have an uphill battle but love y’all!!!!!!

We listen to the podcast pretty regularly and enjoy the matter of fact nature. Hearing about newbie mistakes and successes is always fun. Never stop learning no matter how long you’ve been doing something. Keep it up!

Very informative! My girlfriend and I have started talking about swinging. Found your podcast just in time she is taking me to a swing club for my birthday Friday to check it out! We are exibitionist and have played at a popular sexually energized resort with each other and are further curious! She is excited to listen to your podcasts when we go Friday!

Greta show you two, we are also new to the lifestyle and have listened to a lot of podcasts. They don’t seem to help the newbies much. You two are going through the same process my wife and I are so we listen every week! Keep up the good work good luck on your move.

Too much John, he’s full of himself and seems to control June. She seems like a good person and will probably move on one day.

It’s so distracting. Awful.

We’re fairly new and love hearing about yalls journey, and experiences. The tips are great and the podcast is fun! Love that June is a fellow Texan!

Good info but John constantly sounds like he’s chewing something or eating and it’s soooo irritating.

Why does the husband sound like he is sucking on a cough drop or sucker it drives me crazy. But it’s a good podcast and informative.

Great podcast with insights on what to look out for.

Binged this entire podcast series in a couple days. Grateful for John and June’s advice!!!

Not so sure I would call them swingers. Most swingers have sex with other couples not just the lady. And the BJ’s during the show are rather annoying. I may be off base, but that my opinion.

What a awesome couple! I love the dynamic between them. My wife and I are new to the lifestyle and find ourselves In many of the same situations they talk about. Listening to the podcast together has definitely helped us communicate better as a couple.Specifically in what we want and are looking for. Definitely recommend!

My wife and I are starting to dip our toes into the LS. This podcast is very informative and great for beginners. I shared it with my wife and she loves it too.

It started out interesting, but he talks way too much and is very full of himself for someone dispensing advice to newbies in the lifestyle. How many times can one hear about his getting advice from a porn star or listen to her ugly blowjobs? This show may have already run its course as they’re not offering anything new or useful.

Great advice :)

The guy does most of the talking. Problem is he says the same thing over and over. The lady is more focused and entertaining but gets interrupted by him all the time.

A great podcast

Great mix of wise and sexy. They are still in their thirties, so don’t sound like your parents taking about sex. They go through ups and downs of dipping your toes into lifestyle, analyzing their own emotions. Highly recommend not only for newbies, but to any couple that wants to improve communication about their fantasies and adventures.